Pretty cool he's that into it. I hope my daughter takes an interest later on, she's almost 3 now. She does like to come see what I'm doing in the garage though! This is going to be great when it's done.
She'll take an interest in
you.
I see where some of the dads of his friends wish their kids would come out and spend some time with them but the kids just don't want to. Truth be told, after working around some of the parents, I wouldn't want to spend any more time stuck in a box of a garage with them than I had to either... gettin' all mad when things aren't easy or don't go right the first time.
We put the front output shaft back in that stupid transfer case and bolted the yoke back on, all happy we had everything in place, going together smooooth as butter, snap-ringed the input shaft in, and then realized we'd never get the chain on. DOH! Realizing we had to take apart what we just did, he looks up at me and I knew in that instance it was to see how I'd react... I could have gotten mad, but I laughed.
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Boy that was dumb, wasn't it?"
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Sure was." he chuckled back, not exactly sure what else to do I think.
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Let's tear is back apart" was my immediate reply. I knew (from experience) we wouldn't want to do it later any more than we want to redo it now and I wasn't about the take the wind out of the sails with some sort of "
Well, let's just fix it later." When what we need to do is to fix it now.
(Consequently, it was on that re-teardown that we discovered the questionable snap-ring that we're now waiting to replace.)
We're the mature ones with the longer perspective.
Whether they see it this way or not, this is something we're doing while we're spending time together, not the other way around. It's not about the "thing" being worked on, or getting in a hurry to get it done. It's about showing them how an adult works and thinks and handles themselves; helping them get understanding, learn a skill, commit, have character. I'm not going to be around forever and he's going to have to figure his way through. I'm not building a truck here. The priority is my son. The truck is just the means.
In my respectful, humble, and unsolicited opinion, if you can invest in
her more than getting caught-up in the material object, there is a much better chance she'll be at your side, enjoying what she's doing, whether you're working on a classic Willys or shoveling poop.
All the best for you and your family in every future endeavor,
- John